Welcome to Texas

Good old conservative hospitality is alive and well in Texas. From holding the door for elders and letting women enter an open door first, to friendly “hello”’s on the street, Texans mind their manners. Traditional forms of etiquette such as using ‘sir’ and ‘ma’am’ as familiar forms of address are still common.

Texas is one of the most patriotic states: Texans are proud of their state and as the saying goes, “Don’t mess with Texas!” Cultural traditions such as barbeque, rodeo, country music, football and flying the state flag are beloved parts of the Texan identity. While polite questions are welcome, cultural critiques will be met with a cold shoulder. Hence, keep comments curious and friendly…

America was founded on the work ethic that good, honest, hard work is rewarded. Because of this work ethic, time is money, and punctuality is highly regarded.

In general, social conversations in the US are light. There is a standard format for small talk. People ask brief questions and expect brief answers. Some Americans become uncomfortable when a person talks for too long in social situations.

We would strongly discourage discussing politics with people you do not know: it is a polarizing and confrontational topic! Specifically, Texas is home to a vast range of political and social views, so it’s best to keep the conversation away from controversial topics like politics and religion. Mentioning controversies concerning the second amendment, current or former presidents, and or succession will cause awkwardness.

Texas and the Southern states of America are quite conformist, and as aforementioned many communities have a strong affiliation with the conservative Protestant Church, with many Hispanic communities centered around the Catholic Church. In terms of public behavior, this means that common courtesy and upholding a somewhat modest demeanor are expected. There is also much less tolerance in this region for homosexuality, and any public displays of affection. On the other hand, displays of wealth are more common, as they are often indicative of a higher social standing.

Bars and stores often ask for photo ID to prove you're of legal drinking age (21 years or over). Being 'carded' is standard practice; don't take it personally. The sale of liquor is subject to local government regulations – some counties prohibit liquor sales on Sunday, after midnight or before breakfast. In 'dry' counties, liquor sales are banned altogether.